A bit of a rant

Let me start by saying that I don't think I'm generally known for ranting. I do try not to whine because, quite frankly, it's not helpful.
That being said, I have a couple of comments I'd like to make, based on my experiences in the last couple of weeks.

First, to the lady who wants to know if there is "someone else" that I can ask to pick something up 25kms away from my office in the middle of the day....the short answer is "No". When I tell you I can't, it's not because I don't want to, it's just that I really and truly cannot. I feel bad that you're annoyed. I'm not trying to make your life difficult, I just can't- and no, there is no one that can do that for me. Really.

Second, to the receptionist in the doctors surgery who tells me that I don't have a "next of kin" noted on my file, and tells me that you need me to put one down in case I "drop off the perch"....please know that I really don't want to drop off the perch, and it's really hard for me to put down a next of kin. I know it's your job to keep the files tidy, but the reminder of my own mortality and my lack of significant other is probably more than I want to deal with on a Monday afternoon.

Over the past few weeks, I've had a lot of tests done. The good news is that it doesn't look like there is anything that is life threatening. However, it does appear that the discs in my neck are degenerating, amongst other things, and honestly, it kinda hurts. Sometimes, it hurts a lot. It's new and weird.

So, where am I going with this tonight? I suppose I just want to say this-

Listen.
Be patient.
When people put you off, don't be offended, sometimes it's not about you- it's about them and where they are.
Try a little understanding, not everyone has the same circumstances as you. You are luckier than you think.
Be kind. A little kindness goes a long way.

That's it. That's the rant. Thanks for listening.